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The worst is when in addition to playing with your stuff, they hide it. A few years back, Lynette lost her iPhone. The kids must have been five or six at the time. We searched high and low for a week, and couldn’t find it anywhere. Eventually, we gave in and spent the four hundred bucks to replace it. Of course, twenty-four hours after we spent that four hundred bucks it magically turned up. Natalia brought it down from the upstairs bathroom, saying that she found it underneath the rug.
Now, mind you, this is the shared bathroom at my previous abode, which had double doors and the Jack and Jill sinks. (By the way, I put the jack in that Jack and Jill bathroom.) This was the family bathroom, the one everyone brushed their teeth in, the one that the kids took baths in. It got the most traffic. Natalia claimed that after a week of looking for and not finding the iPhone, she simply stumbled across it sticking out from underneath the corner of the three-by-two bathmat. There is absolutely no way that with everyone in and out brushing their teeth and bathing not one of us spotted it. I think there was foul play involved. Natalia did get a twenty-dollar finder’s fee.
When something gets lost, I want to either never find it again or, at a minimum, find it a week later, twenty-eight miles away washed up on a beach. The part where you find it in your own home a day after you pay to replace it is a cosmic fuck you, on top of the underhanded behavior of your children.
Plus kids are always sick and that means a mess. If it’s not piles of snotty tissues, it’s puke. I’m not sure why, but my son was yakking all over the house the other day and the cleanup job was going to be massive. You know it’s bad when you skip right over paper towels and go for something to scoop it up instead. On those days, you end up creating a makeshift excavator out of the Pe
Vomit is the worst thing you can ever clean up. There’s snot rockets, wizz and loogies, but puke is the worst thing the human body can produce to remove from a rug. But the people who do the vomiting, especially when they’re children, don’t have to clean it up. When they’re kids, they’re sick and just collapse back into bed and moan while Mommy and Daddy bust out the Lysol wipes. When they’re adults, they’re passed out in the back of your car while you head to the gas station to put a quarter in the vacuum. If you vomit at school, the janitor has to throw down that sawdust and scoop it up. Even if you vomit in a restaurant because you ate too much, some poor Mexican has to mop it up. I vomited in an icemaker in Tijuana and I sure as shit didn’t clean that up. But if you knock over a cup of coffee, you clean it up. Why not the vile substance that you actually produce?
I’d like to watch a never-ending reel of people trying to get adults who vomited to clean it up themselves. Forcing drunks to sop up their own sick while their head is still throbbing and they can’t stand would be a viral video sensation, I’m convinced.
Vomit really tells you where you stand in life. There is a sweet spot when it comes to vomiting or seeing someone vomit. You don’t want people constantly puking around you, but if you haven’t seen someone vomit in the last twelve years, you probably aren’t experiencing life to the fullest. The optimal position is not having yakked in a long time yourself, but having seen a buddy puking into a trash can at a ball game or a concert in the past five months. I’m proud to say that I haven’t upchucked in several years. I have a good constitution, and I’m a heavyweight when it comes to drinking.
Plus, I hate it so much. Even worse than the vomiting itself is that moment when you think you’re done puking and the nausea creeps up again. You know, that moment when you’ve been puking all night, you’ve burst the blood vessels in your eyes and you’ve been laying on the filthy tile floor of a frat-house bathroom and you feel like you’ve finally evacuated everything… and then that queasy feeling comes back again.
There are too many question marks about hell to really be scared of it: how hot is it really going to be, who’s going to be there and so on. Because, when you think about it, there’s probably going to be a lot of cool dudes and whores in hell. It might be a good time. But the nausea that breaks the blissfully ignorant feeling that the vomit storm has passed, that queasy moment when you know the yack is back, if you told me that was hell I would straighten up and fly right for the rest of my life. I’d be the second coming of Mother Teresa.
Anyway, the cleanup. So
Hillary Clinton wrote that book saying that it takes a village to raise a child. She was right. That village was in Guatemala, but now it’s in my house. (By the way, my next book will be about gay parents and called It Takes the Village People.)
We had hired help from day one. We had to. When So
And who cares. The kids didn’t know at the time and it’s not like they’re going to sit me down when they’re older and say, “How come you didn’t have the guts to sit in my room when I was three weeks old and watch me shit myself?”
Let me start with a fuck you to all the people who are reading this and thinking, “Quit complaining about how hard raising kids is, rich guy. You’ve got a na
And I pay them well. Here’s a great rich-guy move that says something about who I am. Two years ago, I heard my kids saying goodbye to Olga for the day, shouting, “Happy Birthday, Olgai!” (When they were first learning to talk, they couldn’t say her name correctly, so the mispronunciation just stuck.) I didn’t know that it was Olga’s birthday, so I asked Lynette what we got her. She told me Olga had been having issues with her car, and that we paid three hundred dollars to get it fixed. So I grabbed Olga before she left and asked her what was wrong with the car, what the year and model was — all those dude questions. I was impressed that she knew the mileage. Most people, and sadly most straight guys today, couldn’t tell you the mileage on their car. It was a 2002 Camry with 123,000 miles on it. I asked her how much it cost, and she said she didn’t know. I was curious how she could remember the mileage, but not how much she paid for it. She said, “You bought it for me.”
I had no recollection of buying her a car. Apparently in ’06 when the kids were born, I purchased her said ’02 Camry to drive them around in. After this revelation, I asked Dr. Drew what it said about me that I had zero recall of buying her a car and the hugs and thanks she swore she gave me at the time. He thinks my lack of self-esteem doesn’t allow me to register things that feel good. That’s probably pretty accurate, because I’m now about to list all the things that piss me off about having maids and na