That Boy

Lori and I are sorority sisters, and I'm proud to say that Da

You didn't think I'd ever let him forget that, did you?

He begged me to set them up, after meeting her at a party last year.

Lori's a great girl.

Smart. Premed. Sky high GPA.

She has a wicked sense of humor, which I love, and which is a surprise from someone who looks so straight laced.

Really, I was sorta joking when I told Da

Probably why her and I get along so well, we're complete opposites. She's the responsible to my reckless, the organized to my chaos, the calm to my manic, and the serious to my flippant. Plus, the girl can seriously party, so we have had a lot of fun over the years.

She's a natural beauty and is just gorgeous both inside and out. She has long strawberry blonde hair, a sweep of cute little freckles across her nose and beautiful brown eyes. She's 5'7” and weighs 120 pounds on a fat day.

And although she does have Da

One: She has a brain.

Two: She's never been a cheerleader.

Three: She knows zero about football.

Four: There is nothing simple or easy about her.

Five: She didn't fall all over him when they met, in fact, she ignored him! She knew who he was, sure. I mean, you can't live on campus and not know who the Husker quarterback is. But she had heard me talk about him enough to know that a guy like him, who dates so many different girls, really wasn't the kind of guy she was looking for. She pictured herself with someone serious. She figured she would meet a guy in Med School and they will be brilliant doctors together. She seriously, had NO desire to date him.

REALLY!

Which is what I think really intrigued him.

She was his first real challenge.

And really, once I begged, and quite possibly, bribed, her to go on a date with him, she could see what the fuss was all about. So she decided, what the hell, I know he never takes a girl seriously, so I'll have a little fling with him. But for the first time in his life, Da

And they have been pretty much inseparable ever since.

They make an adorable pair and get along quite well in spite of their differences. He tries to teach her about football, and she tries to teach him Latin.

The thing about her that amazes me is how she always looks dressed up. Even in a T-shirt and sweats, she looks dressy. She just has this class about her, and fittingly, she is president of our sorority.

In our sorority, whenever someone gets promised or lavaliered, pi

It sounds sort of weird, but goes like this.

Basically the whole sorority stands in a big circle with the lights dimmed. We sing songs and when the candle has gone around the circle the right amount of times, the girl who is one of those things blows out the candle as a way of making her big a

Today, Lori got a candle in her house mailbox, and she doesn't know who it came from.

She plops down on my couch and says, “It's just not fair. Ever since I saw my first candlelight ceremony, I dreamed that one day I would get to do it. And since I met Da

Da

Sorry, but Da

He's going to be playing for the Kansas City Chiefs, and Phillip and I are so excited, since we'll be able to go to lots of his games.

“But instead, he's gotten so he won't even talk about our future together. We used to talk all the time about where we hoped he'd go, how we'd want to live, how many kids we'd have.” She starts gesturing big with her hands. “And Jade, I bought it all. Now I don't think he wants to marry me anymore.” She sighs. “I think he just wants to be some rich, single, pro player. KC's most eligible bachelor. Whatever. I'll probably end up married to a boring doctor, and I'll see Da

She's starting to babble.

I smile at her. It's reassuring for me to know that someone so smart, can also not have a clue when it comes to boys. Does she really not know how totally crazy Da

“I know I shouldn't ask, Jadyn, but do you know anything? Has he said anything to you? I can't sleep, I'm eating too much and I can't concentrate on studying for finals. I'm going to be a moose with a bad GPA.” She sighs again. “So should I just give him an ultimatum or what?”

Wow, what do I say?

Lori is my best girlfriend, and I really want to make her feel better, but I can't give the big secret away. I'm sure the reason Da

“Lori, you know Da

Her face tells me that this is not very reassuring.

So I pat her hand and add, “You know, someday he's going to throw you that perfect long bomb into the end zone, and it will have been worth the wait.” I look seriously at her, because this I know for sure. “He's worth it, Lori. He is so worth the wait.”

“Yeah, I know. I'm just sick of sophomores getting engaged.”

When Da

I squint to look at the clock. “Da

“Tell me about this candle passing stuff. Lori was talking about it. She didn't come out and say it, but I got the impression it's something she wants to do.”

DUH!

“Of course she wants to, but our last meeting is next week, so unless you move up the proposal date, she won't ever get to.”

“Why is this such a big deal, Jay? And what exactly do you do anyway?”

What I want to say is can't we discuss this at a time when my mind is functioning? But my eyes adjust to the light, and I get a good look at Da

He's also looking at me sweetly with those eyes.

I swear, I'd do just about anything for that boy when he looks at me like that.

Fine. Now it is.

“Don't you remember the candlelight ceremony at spring formal, when Bobby Allen and Linsey Newman got engaged? You were there. Didn't you watch?”