That Boy

However, looking back, I'm now convinced there should be a university-wide mandate, just like the one that says that freshmen should live on campus, so they can experience the social aspects of college properly, that freshman girls should not date one guy exclusively.

Because if you liken the boys available to date at your high school to a meal, then you'd be choosing that meal from a half-filled vending machine.

But at college, choosing a boy to date is like choosing a meal from the biggest, most incredible, All-You-Can-Eat Buffet ever imagined.

And there will be no dieting for me!

Hmm, lets see, I think I'll start with a couple of frat pledges, the buff wrestler in sociology class, and the more mature, but totally hot, history grad assistant. Then maybe one of those football players, that hottie who always seems to be on the treadmill next to me when I work out, maybe I'll even have some of that cute photographer.

College is so awesome!

It's really too bad they try to ruin it with classes!

Sophomore year, there were more big changes in my life. They were good changes though because I decided to make them. First, I sold the house I grew up in. This was a difficult decision, but it was getting hard to keep up and was really just sitting there empty all the time.

The Mackenzies and Diamonds helped me go through everything. They advised me on what I should pack up and keep, and what we should sell.

For example, I kept all the pictures and videos of our family, the cedar hope chest Dad gave to Mom before they were married, Mom's wedding dress, Grandma's dining room set and china, things like that. The rest got sold at a big auction. The Diamonds offered to buy the empty lot next door. They didn't want to miss our a

Mr. Diamond has been handling the estate and helping me with financial decisions. He really has been doing his best to fill in for my dad. I don't know what I would do without him. We took some of the money from the sale of the house and bought a town home in Lincoln. It's new and within walking distance of the university.

I'm sure in a ploy to keep me safe, the Macs and Diamonds suggested that Da

It has three bedrooms and a very open floor plan.

At first, the boys said they didn't care how it was decorated.

“Whatever you think is right,” Da

So just to prove a point, Mrs. Mac and I got a swatch of this really ugly pink and purple floral fabric and managed to tell the boys, with a straight face, that we were thinking of ordering a couch in it.

All of a sudden, they cared.

With the moms' guidance, we had the walls painted a neutral golden color and the trim white. The kitchen has dark wood cabinets and stainless steel appliances. It was supposed to have a wall separating it from the living room, but since we picked it out while it was still being built, we changed it so there is a long bar area instead. The formal dining room has a pool table in the middle of it, and the walls are decorated with beer signs and Nebraska football memorabilia.

The living room looks like a Pottery Barn catalog, with two red leather club chairs and soft, slouchy khaki ultra suede couches. There are fun pillows and funky curtains that Mrs. Mac made using a bold, geometric patterned fabric in khaki, red, and golden yellow.

And God forbid, I should forget to mention the huge TV, sound, and gaming system.

I should warn, if you are on a budget of any kind or even have any kind of time constraints, don't take boys with you to the electronics store!

Just go by yourself, and buy a damn TV.

With the boys involved in this decision, what should have been a simple task, took three very lengthy trips to the store, nights of on-line comparisons, and I'm certain we could have fed a small country on what was spent.

Anyway, I really like the way it has all turned out. We even brought the big hot tub from my house and put it on the patio. We use that thing all the time!

We don't have big parties or anything, I've seen what parties can do to a house and want no part of that! But there always seem to be people over. Da

Phillip's Frat brothers tend to hang out at their House, but a few of them come over for FAC (Friday Afternoon Club). And of course, with so many cute boys around, many of my sorority sisters enjoy frequent visits as well.

I feel like I'm freezing to death. My body is achy, my throat and neck are really sore, and I think my glands are swollen.

I hate to admit it, but I may very well be coming down with something.

It's a Tuesday night and instead of being at the bar with Phillip and some friends, I'm in the library doing research for a paper that is due in two weeks. I'm actually trying to get a head start on it, which is something I never do. I tend to wait until the last minute.

I have always said that I do my best work under pressure.

And really, I do.

The teacher for this class is adamant about us using the library and not just the Internet for our research. We have to have five sources that came from the library, so I'm trying to get the five stupid sources out of the way, then I can use the Internet to do the bulk of the research.

But I'm starting to feel really bad. Actually, I haven't felt great for a couple of weeks, but I've been doing my best to ignore it.

Maybe I'm allergic to the library. I wonder if that could get me out of this stupid paper.

Probably not.

I give up on the resources and go home to an empty house. I take off my clothes, put on a pair of really warm sweat pants, and then raid Da

I doze off for a little while and when I wake up, I feel even worse.

I am definitely sick.

I wish Mom was here. She always spoiled me when I was sick.

I really miss her and Dad.

Then I think of the next best thing and call Phillip's cell.

He answers with a cheerful, “Hey.”

There's a lot of laughing and noise in the background. It sounds like they're already having a great time.

I hate missing a great time.

“Phillip,” I whine, “when are you coming home?”

“Not for a while. Are you done at the library? You go

“Oh,” I say quietly.

“What's wrong?” He reads my voice and knows since I didn't say, I'll be right there, something must be wrong.

“Nothing Phillip, I just don't feel very good.” I sorta start to cry. “Um, well, I feel really bad and I'm all alone,” I sniffle.

“I'll be right there.” I hear him tell everyone, I gotta go, before he shuts his phone.

I'm really lucky to have Phillip, I think, as I fall back to sleep.

I feel a hand on my forehead and wake to find Phillip at my side.

“My God, Princess, you're burning up! Have you taken your temperature?”

I shake my head no and close my eyes. My eyelids burn.

Phillip runs in the bathroom and grabs a thermometer. Then he sits on my bed and says, “Here, open your mouth.”